I his met a dad once who took care of several small kids and was also a bassist in an underground thrash-metal band.
When my first child arrived my wife and I subscribed to Parents magazine. Parents. Magazine. Each issue of “Parents” magazine had a little feature taking up a quarter or a half of the last page dedicated to “dads”. For the rest of the magazine, “Parents” == mothers. I wrote them and told them they should change their name. No reply. We cancelled that subscription pretty quickly.
Dads aren’t idiots, despite what the laundry detergent commercials try to tell you.
Happy Dads Day!
-Jim